Dedicated to Women’s Day 2016.
Being in early 20’s, I start seeing the world with different eyes, being aware of many more things around us and the life start rolling pretty fast. Sometimes it’s hard to remember why do we enjoy life, who are we and who do we want to become – but here’s a reminder (and a beautiful gift you that can be yours!).
I am 23 and I have no idea when that happened. Where are those year in-between? I think I turned 19 yesterday.
I thought that things for me were impossible. I always wanted to live in different countries but was too afraid to leave. I always wanted to start this blog but was too concerned what others will think. Something very me is that I always used to have theories. Theories about everything. And when I started applying them… The world twisted!
Who do you want to be?
What do you want to do?
Where do you want to be?
I’ll tell you what I want. I want to work in fashion, still have no idea what and that’s okej. I want to be a successful young woman, be good at what I do, be creative. I want to travel. I never want to start drinking coffee because I seriously don’t like the taste. I want to travel, that’s why I want to make money. And for beautiful clothes and makeup because they make me happy too.
I want to become more open minded and less stressful when I’m without a plan. I want to be the best person for Petter because he makes my everyday complete. I also want to have time to visit my family more often because I miss them, as well as my friends. I want to enjoy my 20s as much as possible and I want to make others happy and be happy. Oh, and I really want to become a morning person. And read more books!
What do you believe in?
This is what I believe in and what every woman should know…
I truly believe that we can do whatever we can. We live at time when men and women are (almost) equal. It was never better than this anyway. We can become whoever we want to become. There is a way to reach everything, the question is how patient we are and how much we want it? How brave are you to start and don’t care about anyone else around you? Enough, I believe. But you should believe that too.
Why not to care and why not to listen to people around us? Because we have our own hearts and our own minds. Every night you lay down with yourself, your mind and thoughts and that’s who you will always have. You have to love yourself first and you have to do thing for yourself and be good with what you do. No one else will ever be you and you will never be anyone else. Make decisions and do life your way, it’s the only recipe for happiness as much as I know. Your parents, friends, family, they have their lives and they had chance and have a chance to live their dreams. It’s just so important to do what YOU love (well maybe not at the beginning but top of the hill requires climbing)!
I also believe that relationships are built from the bottom and they always require construction work. Both love and friendship. I always make sure I never go to bed in a fight. There should never be nights when you have to think about words you said to each other. I also believe the time shouldn’t be wasted with someone you don’t feel 100%. Why? Only not to be alone and being scared you won’t find someone better. Well, you’re probably much better so for the time being, be with yourself because you will love it more. And yourself too, you need to be loved by you because then you can love someone else.
And no, unsuccessful relationships are not fails. They are your practice on how much are you able to give yourself in, they are a proof that you can care, love and respect. They are experiences that build you and that form you, until the right one comes.You are absolutely good enough, but does it makes sense to be with someone who doesn’t want you the same? No, because in the long run…You need to be happy and loved, nothing less than that is good enough, in my world.
In the end, I believe in girl power. I believe we have so much to offer, I believe we are strong and I believe we are the ones who keep family together, care that everyone and everything is all good and give up so much during our whole life. So this post is dedicated to all girls, young women and all women, moms, sisters, daughters, grandmothers, aunts, girlfriends and wives – all of you who are reading my posts and following my journey!
INTERNATIONAL Women’s Day GIVEAWAY !
So, to celebrate OUR day, I really wanted to do a giveaway including something that gives me “me time” every morning!
I am giving away this beautiful, pigmented and suitable for every skin tone – MAYBELLINE THE BLUSHED NUDES EYE SHADOW PALETTE with 12 nude-inspired shimmery colors and an application brush!
TO ENTER IT IS REQUIRED:
- Follow me on Instagram
- Answer into comments one of the questions I asked in the post (English or Croatian). The answer I will love the most will win the prize! :)
You can enter only once (maybe invite a friend so chances are higher), the giveaway ends on 8th March at 18:00 o’clock.
CONGRATULATIONS, the winner is Jelena Kovacevic! <3
Thank you everyone for participating, sharing your thoughts and beliefs, you are seriously amazing women with amazing attitudes that will get you far in your lives. I am really happy and blessed to have readers like you! Happy Women’s Day to each and every one of you and I hope you will join me in future giveaways because there is nothing that I love to do more than make at least of you have a little treat in life <3
GOOD LUCK & HAVE A LOVELY DAY!!!